The Dating Rules by Karen are for men and women who are ready to get serious about meeting the right person and move forward from dating with. All the undertones are colored in very Christian morals and some "rules" are outright biblical. I won't apologize for any of that, as it happens I believe in one truth. If you're ready to buckle down and do some real heart-growth then read on!
Thursday, March 17, 2011
Rule #3 IT'S NOT A GAME
Most girls accuse guys of being the game players, but here's one we girls have that is JUST as bad. The difference is it's not just harmful to the guy, it's harmful to the girl too! This game has no name because it has been adapted into what's thought to be "normal" for way too long. The way it works is this: girl meets guy, girl tells friends about every physical and verbal interaction with guy, girl looks for input from friends and judges guy's legitimacy accordingly. The guy is then subject to what could be months of judgment, just because girl isn't awake enough to see the relationship for what it really is. Here's what it really is: If you have to ask someone if your man is doing right, than he is doing WRONG! When a guy is REALLY into you he makes it clear. There are no mixed signals. If an excuse can be made for his lack of commitment, verbal-affection, attention ...you name it; than it's because you are NOT the girl for him and he's getting something other than eternity with you out of it. You now have two choices: Run and Run fast. Or agree to wasting your time, heart, and physical purity and worth on him until he decides to stop calling, (stop calling for good this time). And for all you tough girls out there who believe you don't need commitment, well take it from me, you deserve it and it is WELL WORTH the wait! Don't waist his time and don't waist yours with "the game."
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