Rule #4 Real women find real men.

I guess the hardest thing about that is figuring out what a real woman is. Deep down I believe all us girls know that it takes a spot of classy mixed with gentleness and purity, but one thing we may not all grasp is the self-worth portion. I believe that our self-worth is defined by what we believe we deserve in a man. If you think that your standards need to be lowered because there is no "good guy" out there, think again. I would dare to say that IT IS OUR STANDARDS THAT DETERMINE MEN'S ABILITY TO LIVE UP TO THEM! If you expect your boyfriend to be a cheapskate, looser, liar, or anything less than a powerful man of God...than that's what he will be. Not only do we attract the men that we expect, but if we don't "lay down the law" so-to-speak, than how will they know there is something to live up to?! A real women knows how to gently speak her mind on what is acceptable and a real man would give anything to be the hero you want. If that man has an excuse for being anything less-than, move on! The longer you stay and put up with it, the more you add to this man's idea of what is considered okay, AND the longer he goes without change! The greatest thing that we can hope for is that all women pull together on this. If all women knew their worth and expected it, than no man would be able to get away with mistreating any of them. Get it together girls!